Tom Ham’s Lighthouse Wedding Photography: Rhianna & Sherilyn’s Romantic San Diego Celebration


There’s something undeniably magical about a waterfront wedding in San Diego, especially when it’s just days before Valentine’s Day. Rhianna and Sherilyn’s celebration at Tom Ham's Lighthouse was the perfect blend of romance, coastal beauty, and joyful energy.


With a rich color palette of dark purple and white, elegant orchid florals, and a love story rooted in friendship, their wedding day felt deeply personal from beginning to end. Set against sweeping bay views and the San Diego skyline, every moment reflected both the beauty of the location and the strength of their connection.

Outdoor wedding ceremony under a modern white latticed arch structure overlooking the ocean with seated guests at Tom Ham's Lighthouse.

Getting Ready in Matching Robes


The day began at a nearby hotel in San Diego, where Rhianna and Sherilyn each got ready with their closest friends. One of the sweetest details from the morning was their matching purple and white robes, which perfectly tied into the wedding’s overall color palette.


The energy in the room was a mix of excitement and calm anticipation. Friends helping with final touches, sharing stories, and soaking in the significance of the day ahead. These getting-ready moments always set the tone, and for Rhianna and Sherilyn, it was filled with love and intention.

A bride with long dark wavy hair and a white robe while looking to the side in an indoor setting.
A bride in a white lace wedding dress with a veil stands in front of a window with curtains.
Bride and bridesmaids in matching purple satin robes sits on a bed laughing and enjoying a celebratory moment together.
Vintage wedding details including rings and delicate ivory roses arranged on a soft surface.
Wedding party members show off their matching gray socks with custom black lettering while sitting together on white bedding.

A Waterfront Ceremony with City Views


Their ceremony at Tom Ham's Lighthouse featured one of the most iconic backdrops in the area: panoramic views of the water with the San Diego skyline stretching across the horizon. Palm trees swayed gently nearby, adding that unmistakable classic San Diego vibe, while the deep purple and white florals (especially the orchids) brought an elegant, romantic touch to the space.


But what made the ceremony truly unforgettable was the story behind it. Rhianna and Sherilyn’s relationship began as a friendship, and their ceremony beautifully honored that journey, two best friends who found love in each other.


They also incorporated deeply personal elements into the ceremony, including a sand pouring tradition, symbolizing the blending of their lives, and a custom secret handshake that had guests smiling through happy tears. These moments made the ceremony feel uniquely theirs, playful, emotional, and full of meaning.


With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, the entire moment felt even more meaningful, like a celebration of love in its purest form.

Bride in white lace dress laughs joyfully during outdoor wedding reception with guests seated in background at Tom Ham's Lighthouse.
Rustic wedding ceremony sign on wooden stand reads 'Pick a seat not a side either way it's for a bride' in calligraphy.
Bride in elegant lace wedding dress with long sleeves and veil smiles during outdoor ceremony at Tom Ham's Lighthouse.
Two brides share a joyful moment during their outdoor wedding ceremony surrounded by seated guests at Tom Ham's Lighthouse.
Two brides pour sand from elegant glass flutes during an outdoor wedding ceremony in natural sunlight.
Two brides exit their wedding ceremony setup with white chairs and modern metal arch sculpture under an outdoor canopy.
Two brides in flowing white wedding gowns share a joyful moment under a decorative white archway outdoors.
Two brides share their first kiss during their wedding ceremony under an ornate white lattice arch at an outdoor venue.

Golden Hour Portraits with the San Diego Skyline


After the ceremony, we took full advantage of the waterfront setting for couples portraits along the bay. With the water and the San Diego skyline in the background, the setting created a timeless and cinematic feel.


One of the most fun details we captured was Rhianna and Sherilyn’s matching white Converse sneakers, which revealed a hidden surprise on the bottom: “Just Married.” It was such a playful, personal touch that perfectly reflected their personalities and added a modern twist to their wedding style.


Between the glowing light, the palm trees, and the coastal breeze, these portraits captured everything that makes a San Diego waterfront wedding so special, effortless, romantic, and full of personality.

Beautiful wedding scene with white and pink orchids and white roses creating an elegant floral backdrop for two brides.
Two brides wearing custom wedding sneakers with writing on the soles with the message Just Married.
Two brides in white wedding dresses share a joyful moment together while holding floral bouquets outdoors with the San Diego cityscape.

Cocktail Hour Right on the Bay


Guests transitioned seamlessly into cocktail hour, which took place right along the water. With uninterrupted views of the bay and skyline, it was the perfect setting for guests to mingle, enjoy drinks, and take in the scenery.


This is one of the biggest advantages of hosting a wedding here, everything flows naturally, and guests get to experience multiple perspectives of the venue without ever leaving the property.

A panoramic series of waterfront views showing the San Diego skyline under cloudy skies at Tom Ham's Lighthouse.
Wedding reception decor featuring elegant white tablecloths and pink uplighting in a banquet hall setting.

A Lively Ballroom Reception


As the evening continued, everyone moved inside for the reception in the venue’s ballroom. The celebration quickly shifted from emotional to energetic, with heartfelt speeches giving way to a packed dance floor.


The purple and white theme carried throughout the reception space, tying together the entire day’s design. Between the laughter, music, and constant movement on the dance floor, it was clear that this was a group ready to celebrate Rhianna and Sherilyn to the fullest.


From their emotional ceremony to the lively reception, the entire day felt like a perfect balance, deeply meaningful and incredibly fun.

Two brides enter together holding 2 cocktails at a wedding reception in an elegant indoor venue.
Two brides share their first dance during their wedding celebration in an elegant venue with soft lighting at Tom Ham's Lighthouse.
Two brides cut a 2 tier wedding cake in a ballroom at Tom Ham's Lighthouse in San Diego.

A Valentine’s-Inspired Wedding to Remember


Being just days before Valentine’s Day, Rhianna and Sherilyn’s wedding naturally carried a romantic, love-filled atmosphere. But beyond the timing, it was their story, rooted in friendship and built on years of connection, that made the day so special! Their wedding at Tom Ham's Lighthouse was a beautiful reminder that the best love stories often start in the most genuine places.


For couples planning a San Diego waterfront wedding, this venue offers everything you could want: stunning views, classic coastal charm, and a seamless flow from ceremony to celebration.


Whether it's San Diego or the San Francisco Bay Area, my team and I are here for to capture your love story! Check out our packages and get in touch through our contact form to check our availability for your upcoming wedding: https://www.tangerineweddings.com/pricing

A group in dark purple and white dresses share joyful moments while holding pink and white floral bouquets at a wedding.

Rhianna and Sherilyn's dream team:


Venue: Tom Ham's Lighthouse

Photography: Kelsey Nevell Photography

Videography: Raul Z Video